I don't mind if I'm single forever...

BUT, if I DID ever get married, it would NOT NOT NOT be a "traditional" wedding. I don't really want put tons and tons of money and work and stress into one single day, when the real important thing is the MARRIAGE that will come in the years following that one day. I'd rather put the money towards a down payment on a house or something practical like that. I can't feel good about spending thousands and thousands of dollars on what will ultimately be photos and memories. I can spend lots less money and get the same things. I can feel more comfortable and happy if I am feeling like I am ME. And I am just not really the fluffy puffy white and frilly type! Maybe I should at least fantasize about my "dream wedding" like other gals do, but I can't even do that, not even about a non-traditional-type ceremony. I think I'd rather fantasize more about having a happy marriage, a stable household, a fulfilling relationship and family - WHEN and IF that time ever comes in my life. And believe me, I will be fine if even if none of that ever happens! I like my life, I like where I am going with it, and I have lots of goals and ambitions that don't require being legally attached to another person. I like my independence. I like knowing that I can always count on ME, no matter what. And I am just as likely to fantasize about getting my PhD, working for a university, being able to travel the world, learn new languages, try new foods, learn new things!

OK, that's all for now.